🌱 Diagnosis & Early Intervention
Getting an evaluation and accessing early services.
Free CDC milestone checklists and a Milestone Tracker app help you follow your child's development from 2 months to 5 years, so you know what to watch for and when to act. A gentle first step when you're unsure whether to seek an evaluation.
Free developmental, autism, hearing, and speech-language screenings for children from birth to age 13, offered through county health departments statewide. A gentle first step if you want a professional look at how your child is developing.
Free autism screening and referral services for young children, funded by the Developmental Disabilities Council of Oklahoma. If you're worried about your child's development, their team can screen and help connect you to the right next steps.
The state's academic hub for developmental and behavioral pediatrics, offering comprehensive autism and developmental evaluations by developmental pediatricians, child psychologists, and specialists. This is where many Oklahoma families go for a formal autism diagnosis and treatment planning.
A local clinic in Stillwater offering developmental, behavioral, speech, language, and hearing evaluations for children, staffed by a psychologist, speech-language pathologist, and child development specialist. It's a warm first stop close to home if you have concerns about how your child is growing or communicating.
SoonerStart is Oklahoma's free early intervention program for babies and toddlers, birth to age 3, who have developmental delays or disabilities. They come to your home to do the developmental evaluation and build a support plan at no cost to your family, serving Tulsa County families.
⚖️ School & IEP Rights
IEPs, 504 plans, special education, and school advocacy.
Every state has a federally funded Parent Training & Information Center offering free help with IEPs, special-education rights, and early intervention. This hub's directory locates the center that serves your state.
A national nonprofit protecting the rights of students with disabilities. Use their member directory to find a special-education attorney or trained advocate near you when you need help with an IEP or a dispute with a school.
Every state has a federally mandated Protection & Advocacy agency that offers free legal help when a school isn't following your child's IEP or evaluating them as required. This directory connects you to the office serving your area.
Oklahoma's official Protection & Advocacy agency (formerly the Oklahoma Disability Law Center), offering free legal help and advocacy on disability rights, including special education disputes. They work statewide from offices in Oklahoma City and Tulsa.
Oklahoma's federally designated Parent Training and Information center, helping families understand their rights under IDEA and navigate special education, IEPs, and evaluations. All training and one-on-one help is free for Oklahoma parents of children with disabilities from birth to age 26.
If you disagree with your child's school, the state offers free options to resolve it: mediation, IEP facilitation, state complaints, and due process hearings. This page walks parents through each choice and how to request it.
The Oklahoma State Department of Education's Special Education division supports families from infancy through adulthood with parent rights guidance, IEP information, and technical assistance. Staff can answer questions about your child's evaluation and services.
A free service partnered with the Oklahoma State Department of Education that helps parents and schools settle IEP disagreements through trained facilitators, mediators, and hearing officers. There is no cost to families for these services.
Your local school district's special education team handles evaluations, IEPs, and 504 plans for children in Stillwater and the Payne County area, all at no cost to you. If you have questions or concerns about your child's plan, this is the office to call first.
🧩 Therapy & Treatment
ABA, speech, OT, and finding the right providers.
You matter too. Psychology Today's therapist finder filters for 'caregiver stress' and 'autism family,' and Open Path Collective offers reduced-cost therapy sessions nationwide. You cannot support your child well without also supporting yourself.
An Oklahoma City-based center focused on early identification and intervention for children on the autism spectrum, offering autism screening, an inclusive early-childhood program, and family support. A good starting point if you have concerns about a young child and want early screening.
Housed at the University of Oklahoma College of Allied Health, this statewide program helps you find autism providers through a searchable directory covering ABA and behavioral therapists, speech, occupational therapy, and diagnostic evaluations. Their team can talk you through next steps from diagnosis onward, at no cost to families.
The developmental and behavioral team at Oklahoma Children's Hospital OU Health offers autism evaluation, diagnosis, and treatment, with developmental pediatricians, psychologists, speech pathologists, and occupational therapists all in one place. Their Child Study Center provides interdisciplinary assessment for children who may be on the spectrum.
Oklahoma's official state agency for people with developmental disabilities, including autism, serving individuals ages 3 and up. Through case management and Home and Community-Based waivers, DDS can connect your family to therapy, respite, and other long-term supports.
This university-run clinic at Oklahoma State University offers speech, language, and hearing therapy that is open to the public, including a sensory room for children on the autism spectrum. It accepts SoonerCare and offers a sliding-scale fee, so services stay affordable regardless of your ability to pay.
A Stillwater clinic offering individualized speech, feeding, and occupational therapy for infants, children, and teens, including support for autism, apraxia, sensory needs, and language delays. Care is by appointment and tailored to each child.
💰 Financial Assistance & Benefits
Medicaid waivers, SSI, ABLE accounts, and legal aid.
ABLE accounts let people with disabilities (onset before age 26) save money tax-free without losing Medicaid or SSI eligibility. This center compares every state's ABLE program so you can pick the best one for your family.
Vouchers of $300 or $500 that let Oklahoma caregivers pay someone to look after their loved one so they can take a real break. It's open to families caring for someone with a developmental disability who isn't on a DDS waiver, with income under $75,000.
A monthly cash payment of $250-$400 for Oklahoma families raising a child under 18 with a developmental disability at home, to help pay for respite, attendant care, or assistive technology. It's for families not already on an HCBS waiver, with household income up to $45,000.
Free civil legal help for lower-income and disabled Oklahomans statewide, including public benefits, education, healthcare, and housing issues that families of children with disabilities often face. Apply by phone through their hotline, answered Monday through Thursday.
Oklahoma's state ABLE program, run through the State Treasurer, lets people with disabilities save and invest tax-free for disability expenses without losing SSI or Medicaid. Accounts can be opened by the individual or by a parent or guardian as the authorized representative.
Oklahoma's Medicaid agency oversees six waiver programs that fund care at home instead of in an institution, including In-Home Supports waivers for children and adults with intellectual disabilities. A good place to understand which waiver fits your family.
🤗 Support Groups & Community
Find your people — in person and online.
The nation's oldest grassroots autism organization. Their National Helpline connects families to information and referrals, and their affiliate finder points you to a local chapter in your area for in-person support and events.
The largest national community-based organization for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Local chapters offer advocacy, family support, and lifelong services. Use the chapter finder to locate the office nearest you.
Dial 2-1-1 (or visit 211.org) to reach a free, confidential referral line for local health and human services in almost every US community — including disability services, respite, food, housing, and financial assistance.
A statewide nonprofit that has served Oklahoma autism families since 2010 with parent and caregiver classes, community workshops, social groups for neurodivergent adults, and health and safety resources. A good place to find both practical help and connection to other families.
A parent-founded nonprofit running dozens of free or nearly-free programs across the state, including local Connection Circle support groups, sensory-friendly recreation, art and film classes, and family fun events. It is a warm, welcoming community whether your child is newly diagnosed or grown.
Oklahoma's parent-to-parent network connects you one-on-one with a trained support parent who has walked a similar path, offering encouragement and someone who truly gets it. Free, family-led, and available across the whole state.
Run through OU Health Sciences, this program gives Oklahoma caregivers vouchers to help pay for respite so you can rest and recharge, plus family caregiver retreats at no cost. If you care for a child or adult with a developmental disability, this is real help getting a break.
This local nonprofit runs free family fun events and regional parent support groups (Connection Circles), including one right here in Oklahoma City, plus social meetups, camps, and recreation for kids and teens. It is a warm, welcoming place to meet other families who understand.
A local Stillwater-area group for families who love someone with autism, where parents connect, swap tips, and hear about nearby events and programs. It is the closest thing Payne County has to a dedicated local autism parent community.
A longtime Stillwater nonprofit serving Payne County residents with developmental disabilities, including autism, through day services, recreation, job training, and residential support for ages 3 and up. A grounded local option for older children and adults.
An OU Health program with a local Payne County coordinator who helps families of children with disabilities find respite, sibling support, caregiver retreats, and other services close to home. A friendly first call when you are not sure where to start.
Offers year-round sports, recreation, and community for children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities across Oklahoma. It is a great way for your child to stay active, build friendships, and belong.
🚀 Adult Transition & Long-Term Planning
Aging out of school, adult services, and long-term planning.
A statewide coalition that helps families understand guardianship and its less-restrictive alternatives like supported decision-making and power of attorney, so you can pick what truly fits your loved one. Their Caring Line connects you to respite, long-term care options, and disability resources for all ages.
Free state help for people with disabilities who want to prepare for, find, and keep a job, including transition services for students leaving high school. Counselors build an individualized employment plan with training, assistive technology, and job placement.
A long-running Oklahoma City nonprofit offering an adult day program, vocational activities, and transportation for adults with disabilities, plus plain-language guides on guardianship, special needs trusts, and succession planning. A warm option for families thinking about what daily life and care look like after high school.
Oklahoma's official tax-advantaged savings program lets you set money aside for your child's future disability expenses without risking their SSI or Medicaid eligibility. It is a practical first step in long-term financial planning alongside a special needs trust.
The state Department of Rehabilitation Services helps young adults with disabilities prepare for, find, and keep a job through training, coaching, and workplace supports. The Stillwater office serves Payne County families directly.
A note on these listings. This directory is informational and not an
endorsement. Programs, phone numbers, and eligibility change — always confirm details
directly with the provider before relying on them. Nothing here is medical or legal advice.
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